Hypergamy is when women find a good match, they will still delay and see if they can do better, or attract an even higher value man. Or, if she found a good match, she will monkey branch to a potentially higher value male, while she’s “with” you. While she’s with you, her subconscious mind is always telling her that she can do better than this, and she will be on the constant lookout for a “better” guy. You shouldn’t be surprised as this is in her natural biology.
But is she on the constant lookout 24/7 for a “better” guy than you? The answer is No.
As long as you have a frame, and she respects you, and you have other options, an are on your purpose, she will stick around. But slowly, if you start slacking “frame” and make her your first priority in life instead of your ambitions, then don’t be surprised if she cheats or dumps you. She likes the idea of you and wants to be part of your life. But she doesn’t want your life to revolve around her.
Where the majority of men get it wrong is as you become more “close” and spend more time with her, you slowly start to open up and lose “frame”. The worst thing a man can ever do is “open up” to women. Women have this idea ingrained in them that men are strong, stoic, and nonemotional beings. Just imagine a Lion for a second.
We have this idea ingrained in us that a Lion is the king of the jungle, and a strong animal that can kick ass. But say, this Lion was to show weakness and “open up” what would happen? You would shit test the hell out of the Lion like it’s nothing because you now know that it was all talk, and you would think to yourself as a fool that you ever thought this Lion was so “strong”. In just a matter of seconds, all this “respect” you had for the lion as the “King of the jungle” would go down the drain and you would now look at the same lion as “weak.”
The same exact way women see men, once they open up and show any weakness. That’s why being emotionally stoic and strong and showing no emotion in front of women is very necessary. Your dad died? Did you lose my job? Or did any tragedy happen in your life? No one cares. If you want to “open up” go cry to your best friend, but NEVER in front of women. The only person that can fix your life, is yourself.
Good friends will give beneficial advice but no one can make you do anything except yourself. And women? She actually fears that if you open up to her, she’ll lose all the respect she had for you. She cannot fix your problems, and you think “opening up” to her will make her “respect” you more? That’s the easiest way for you to get cheated on, and make her drier than the Sahara Desert and she’ll leave you faster than lightning strikes. Always remember that Lion analogy. Coming back to hypergamy, the reality is, the average woman who is liberal-minded and who went to college has had more than sausages stuffed in her mouth. Most women are only short-term material. If you think of marrying any one of them, then I’m sorry. There isn’t a bigger fool than you. After getting used and abused by many “bad boys” in her prime days, the majority of women then become emotionally broken and damaged man-hating feminists, whom you will never be able to please. Why? Because she has experienced it all. Now, her standards are even higher.
To “have fun around”, women will only choose the bad boys ever who makes her panties soaked by even the thought of him, and after she had her fair share of fun, she will then blame those “bad boys” for being so “toxic”. A lot of people have a misconception of girls being “good” and think they will submit to their husband till the day she dies once she gets married. But girls are one of the best players out there preying on the beta bucks after having their good fair share of fun in University.
Beta bucks who put their head down and study for 12 long hard years for a good salary and think it will make women attracted to them and to find a “good” wife is only suitable for her after she had her fair share of fun, and wants him for his life-long comfortable income and as a “husband” material. But deep down, she wishes she could have it “all” and wishes that her husband would be like her unpredictable exes. But she didn’t marry the bad boy because either he didn’t stay around, or because they aren’t wealthy, or of what “others” will think of her if she’s with them. So she ends up settling with the “boring safe guy” who will pay all her bills, but she will never be truly wet for him.
Now, many women think they are entitled to the top 1 percent of men, just because of their beauty. We have many simps who worship them, and because of social media validation and so on, many women think just because of their beauty, they deserve a High valued male. When in reality, many of these women lack character, femininity, and genuine respect for men. The only thing they are bringing to the table is their body. Other than that? Nothing. They hate a man if that man provides no value to her. It all comes back to two things which are money and attention which beta bucks provide or the emotional rollercoaster and drama which alpha males provide.
Other than that, 95% of men provide no value to her. So, she dislikes the majority of men. The reality is, there will always be a better man in wealth, status, and looks. No matter how much you “self improve” there will always be a better man out there than you. But this doesn’t mean you stop “self-improving.” The day you stop self-improving is the day you die.
If she’s with you right now, you’re her highest option available. The day any higher value male comes along and interests her, or if you lose frame, she will be gone. All men must remember one thing, Hypergamy doesn’t care. No matter how many frames you have, or whatever you did for her, she doesn’t care. It’s in her biology to mate with the highest value male possible she can find, and she will leave you once she finds someone higher of value. And this is where the harsh red pill truth comes in, and you have to accept the cold hard fact no matter how much it shocks you.
In conclusion, no matter how long you’ve been with her, you must acknowledge hypergamy is ingrained in her natural biology. Be emotionally stoic and strong, never open up, stay on your purpose, and don’t make her the #1 priority in your life. The other best advice is, “Whatever it is, always do less with women, and the more they’ll do with you”. And in the end, if you follow everything, and she still ends up dumping you, or cheating on you, then you must be stoic and acknowledge, “In the end, she’s never yours. It’s only your turn.”
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